We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section. 

Dear Em & Lo,

I’ve been with my boyfriend eight years, and sometimes we use toys. He’s about five to five and a half inches, and I would like to try something just a little bit bigger around — but he thinks it’s going to make me big down there. I don’t think it will . What do you think?

— Size Queen

Should Size Queen go large?
Share your advice in the comments below